Flying Monkeys: How Narcissists Use Others to Manipulate You
Jennifer MayfieldHave you ever felt blindsided by people acting on behalf of a toxic individual, carrying their messages, spreading rumors, or pressuring you to reconcile? These people, known as "flying monkeys," are a narcissist's secret weapon. They’re often friends, family, or even coworkers unknowingly (or sometimes knowingly) enlisted to do the narcissist's dirty work. In this blog post, we explore how narcissists use flying monkeys to manipulate, control, and isolate their targets. You'll learn who these flying monkeys are, why narcissists rely on them, and how they operate to keep you in a web of confusion. More importantly, we’ll give you actionable strategies to protect yourself, including setting boundaries, cutting off their access to information, and recognizing when it’s time to walk away.